Swingers
Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Talk Before You Touch: Communication that Makes Play Hotter
In the lifestyle, communication isn’t just about words; it’s about connection, trust, and keeping everyone on the same page.
In The Playroom
Sexual Trauma and the Swinger Lifestyle: What You Need to Know
How can sexual past sexual trauma impact your or your partners' lifestyle journey? In this very important episode, Cate talks to a counselor! A must-listen for all lifestylers.
The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution, or Opportunism?
Hot Takes: The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution or Opportunism? (Bonus Episode)
Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience
Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor?
Cap d'Agde Desires, What’s in the Box, and How to Small Talk
Do you talk about your desires before going to a swingers club or swingers event? In this episode, Cate and Darrell share what they hope for at Cap d'Agde, a swingers mecca in France.
STI Testing for Swingers: Why “Safer Sex” Beats “Safe Sex”
Is oral sex “low risk”? How long should you wait to test after a hotel takeover or cruise? And what’s the real deal with HSV and HPV in the lifestyle? We brought receipts — and two experts.
Are Vanillas a Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic?
Cate & Darrell unpack their hot takes on dirty vanillas in the swinging lifestyle
Diving into the Boundaries and Rules of the Lifestyle
Hosts Adam and Pris delve into the intricate topics of rules and boundaries in an intimate relationship.
QUICKIE: Flirting Fumbles: A Guide to Connection
A humorous yet practical guide to flirting, covering why genuine connection and eye contact matter far more than generic compliments.
The Journey Begins: Our 14-Year Swing & Poly Story
Hosts Adam & Pris introduce their story —14 years together, 13 in the lifestyle, including a polyamory experiment.
Trust, Transparency, and Intimacy
Hosts Adam and Pris delve into the complex world of open relationships, discussing their personal experiences and boundaries within the swinging lifestyle.
QUICKIE: Sensual vs Non Sensual
An honest and entertaining look at how sexual wants evolve over time, tracing one couple's journey from past experiences to a newfound desire for something more sensual.
Infidelity in the Lifestyle: A Paradox
Hosts Adam and Pris delve into the perplexing issue of infidelity within open relationships, specifically within the lifestyle community.
Transforming Love: Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Shame, Attachment & Polywise Relationships
Jessica Fern & David Cooley on attachment, the Shame Triangle, and turning resentment into deeper connection.