• “Events you may want to attend” is now highlighted at the top of the parties and events page.
• Map view now available for Parties & Events.
• NEW Virtual Assistant to help you navigate our website, making it easier to find what you are looking for.
• “Recommended for you” is our new profile matching program that will give you recommendations based on certain criteria. Find new potential dates at the top of your feed.

Coming soon….

• SDC Stories our new temporary content feature where posts only stay visible for 24hrs.

Ever wish someone could just point you in the right direction? Now they can.

Say hello to your new Virtual Assistant, look for the sparkle icon, and you've got a helper ready to guide you around SDC anytime you need it.

Here's how it works:

• Show me how to: Browse a list of common questions: starting a live stream, creating a group, planning a trip, adjusting your privacy settings, and more. Pick one, and it'll walk you through it step by step, right on the site.
• Just ask: Type what you're looking for in your own words. The more detail you give, the better it can help with providing clear written instructions.

Click the settings icon in the Assistant window to customize your experience:

• Set your reply speed (Slow, Normal, or Fast) so your guided walkthroughs move at a pace that works for you.
• Clear your conversation anytime for a fresh start.

Not sure how to find a setting, or want to try something new on SDC? Your Virtual Assistant's got you covered.

Look for the sparkle, click it, and let it guide you.

Welcome to the SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books recommended by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members.

This month, check out Hotwife Chronicles: Exploration by Michael Stewart

Every fantasy has a honeymoon. Every lifestyle has consequences.
After one unforgettable night leaves their marriage shaken, Amrie and Shane escape to the sun-soaked shores of Cozumel, hoping to rediscover what first brought them together. What begins as a chance to reconnect soon becomes a journey neither of them ever expected.

Far from home, they meet those who have already walked the path they're only beginning to explore. New friendships, unexpected mentors, unforgettable adventures, and desires neither of them knew they possessed challenged everything they thought they understood about trust, jealousy, intimacy, and love.

But the journey doesn't end when they return home.

As they continue exploring together, they realize that the experiences are only part of what makes the lifestyle meaningful. The friendships they build with others who truly understand their path become just as important as the adventures themselves. Through honest conversations, shared laughter, difficult choices, and unforgettable moments, they learn that trust isn't given once, it's earned again and again.

https://michaelstewartofficial.com/#books

The hotwife dynamic is as unique as the couple who shares it. Some couples love the slow, teasing build of anticipation. Others thrive on the confidence of open display. Some are drawn to deep emotional connection, and some just love keeping things playful and full of surprises.

Answer these 7 questions honestly to reveal whether you are The Showstoppers, The Connectors, The Free Spirits, or The Explorers at Heart.

Bonus for hotwifing couples: take it together and compare notes to reveal your shared dynamic!

Take the quiz here!

Congratulations to COUPLEFORFUN19 for winning the Bed Sweat & Tears video contest.

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by:
Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club,DV8 Dare Games, Orgie, Malibu Strings,Bijoux Indiscrets,Morgan Reynolds, Florida Lifestyler andSTD Hero.

Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:

• New - Passport to Pleasure - Video Contest
• Current – “Unicorn Chronicles” – Writing Contest
• Voting Underway - Only One Prop - Photo Contest

Time for something new? Or just feel like adding a touch of SDC to your wardrobe?

For home, the club, on the go, or for that one occasion where it’s okay to be recognized a little...

From T-shirts, tops, and dresses to sweaters, cardigans, and of course our wonderfully cozy SDC bathrobes. Perfect for unwinding after a night out at the club or just relaxing at home... and even better when personalized with your own profile name.

But it’s not just about clothing. In the shop, you’ll find plenty of other fun, handy, and sometimes slightly naughty items.

Things you’ll want for yourself or great ideas for a gift!

www.sdcshop.com

Looking for a Halloween getaway? SDC connects you with welcoming, consent-forward spaces that cater to the non-monogamous community. Places where dressing up or down, letting loose, and connecting together or with others are the whole point.

Whether solo, coupled, or bringing friends along, these listings love to offer you their hospitality!

Are you hosting this season? Here's a quick tip:

This is a perfect time to refresh your BNB listing with a seasonal picture of your space and add a vivid description of what you offer to celebrate the Spooky season. Think about a signature "Witch's Brew" welcome cocktail and of course, Halloween-inspired decor.

Got a bigger venue? Run a spooky season special or organize a Halloween masquerade party night, where people can come dressed as their sexiest fantasy self to mix and mingle.

Our 2nd annual Sexy Sampler Cruise sailing on the Celebrity Summit is ALMOST SOLD OUT. Bliss Cruise has designed an action-packed 4-night cruise departing from Tampa, FL with a stop in Cozumel, Mexico. This quick yet indulgent sailing is perfect for both new and returning guests looking for a mid-winter escape while enjoying our Bliss signature events. 

On the ship, you can enjoy the clothing-optional pools, multiple playrooms, interactive workshops and seminars, fun theme nights, various Meet & Greets, and the non-stop party atmosphere. Your Bliss cruise will come alive with non-stop entertainment and a huge variety of parties to suit all tastes.

There is never a dull moment on Bliss Cruise. The party begins the moment you step on the ship. Discover new pleasures and indulge in your every fantasy. Make new friends and spice up your vacation.

Don’t miss out on this incredible cruise. Reserve your spot now and be part of the BLISS experience!

• Wednesday, February 24, 2027 - Tampa, FL
• Thursday, February 25, 2027 - At Sea
• Friday, February 26, 2027 - Cozumel, Mexico
• Saturday, February 27, 2027 - At Sea
• Sunday, February 28, 2027 - Tampa FL

The right couple doesn't just check boxes; they match your energy, your lifestyle, and your standards.

The search for fit couples could start and stop at aesthetics: who looks good, who works out, who fits a certain physical type. That part matters to a lot of people, and there's nothing wrong with knowing what you're attracted to. But in the swinging lifestyle, "fit" tends to mean something bigger than that.

A truly fit couple is one that fits you: your communication style, your comfort level, your boundaries, and yes, your physical attraction. The couples worth finding are the ones where everything lines up, not just the surface stuff. When you get that combination right, the experience tends to be something you actually want to repeat.

So before you start scrolling profiles or showing up to swinger parties, it's worth getting clear on what you're actually looking for. Physical chemistry tends to be the easy part, but compatibility is sometimes what keeps things smoldering.

So let's talk about what it actually takes to find couples who check both boxes — and how to make sure you're the kind of couple they want to find, too. READ MORE...

Salon de l'amour et de L'erotisme La Louvière
October 30/31 & November 1.

For 21 years, Erotix has been welcoming visitors to the Salons de l'Amour et de l'Erotisme in Belgium. This edition in La Louvière once again features a weekend full of erotica, discovery, entertainment, and surprises.

Whether you have been familiar with this world for years, are visiting for the first time, or are simply curious: there is plenty to discover at the fair. Stroll past the various stands, shop for unique accessories, lingerie, and other items, and enjoy the shows running throughout the day.

The enclosed BDSM Village has long been a special part of the fair. It is a place for everyone interested in fetish, kinky, BDSM, D/S, puppies, and everything that goes with it.

Here you can look around at your leisure, ask questions, watch demonstrations, and discover various practices and materials.

You will find there, among other things:
• BDSM material and demonstrations
• Shibari and suspension initiations
• A separate cabin for those who prefer to get acquainted in peace and quiet
• Stands with fetish and BDSM accessories, furniture, and lingerie
• Various opportunities to look, discover, and try something out yourself.

Especially for all the ladies: on Friday, October 30 and Saturday, October 31, the Champagne Bar is the place for the Ladies Party from 9:00 PM to 10:00 PM! An hour of shows, attractive men, and plenty of seduction.

Every woman receives a glass of champagne upon entry.

And if you still haven't had enough after a day at the fair? Then the party simply continues in the evening during the Soirée Libertines.

On Friday, October 30 and Saturday, October 31, from 9:00 PM to 4:00 AM, the fair transforms into a night full of music, seduction, and excitement, with a dance floor, bar, DJ, topless waitresses, and plenty of intimate corners.

Anything is possible, as long as it is done with respect for one another. Admission only for couples and single women.

A weekend full of eroticism, curiosity, and plenty to discover. Look around, shop, watch shows, and discover new things during the day, and stay in the evening for the Ladies Party and Soirée Libertines.

Who knows what you might discover this weekend…

Salon de l'amour et de L'erotisme
Friday, October 30 | 17:00 - 01:00 (afterparty until 04:00)
Saturday, October 31 | 15:00 - 01:00 (afterparty until 04:00)
Sunday, November 1 | 14:00 - 20:00

LOUVEXPO | La Louivière, BE
www.erotix-world.com

October 16 and 17
35 years of Bornedries. Yes, really… 35 years!

And of course, you wouldn't let that pass you by. This will be a birthday weekend just as you have come to expect from Bornedries: pleasantly busy, delicious food, good music, familiar faces, and, of course, plenty of surprises.

Amuse-bouches and delicious aperitif snacks are ready, and since being a birthday simply calls for presents, we have something nice in store for that too.

And honestly? This is one of those evenings you’d rather not say afterwards:
“Shit… I wish I had been there.”

Because who we haven't seen in a while? There's a good chance they'll be there again this time.

So make sure you arrive on time. Birthday weekends in Bornedries are known for being packed. And with us, full really means full.

Of course, during your visit you can simply enjoy everything Bornedries has to offer. Relax in the sauna or hammam, take a look at the erotic cinema, enjoy a drink in the lounge bar, or discover one of the 22 themed rooms.

And weather permitting, you can also go outside to the swimming pool with a sunbathing and play area.

Bornedries brings you together. You decide the rest.

Bornedries 35th Anniversary Weekend
Friday 16 and Saturday October | 19:00 – 03:00
Bornedries | Sint-Truiden BEL
www.bornries.be

November 6

The time has come. Landgoed De Zaar officially opens its doors!

After a complete renovation, the estate is ready for a new start. A fresh, stylish location amidst the greenery of Grubbenvorst, close to Venlo, where you can arrive peacefully, enjoy a drink, and experience the evening entirely in your own way.

With an emphasis on atmosphere, comfort, and privacy, De Zaar is a new place to discover. Stylish spaces, warm decor, and an intimate setting ensure that you feel at ease from the moment you walk in.

On Friday, November 6, we celebrate the official Grand Opening!

You are welcome from 7:00 PM and can stay until 4:00 AM. Come whenever it suits you, meet new people, and make it your own evening.

ENTRANCE
Men only: €110
Couples: €70
Women only: €30

Book in advance and receive a €20 discount on admission!

A new location, a new atmosphere, and a new place to discover.

Grand Opening
De Zaar Estate | Venlo
Friday, November 6 | 19:00 – 04:00
www.dezaar.nl

October 24

Toxic hardly needs an introduction anymore. It is one of the most talked-about fetish parties in the Netherlands and therefore absolutely should not be missing from your party agenda.

At Toxic, you never quite know how your evening will unfold. What is certain, however, is that you step into a world of lacquer, leather, and latex, with various areas that each have their own atmosphere.

The Discotheque, The NXT, The Club, and the Deephouse Café: there is something different to experience everywhere.

But that doesn't get you there yet...

Stroll along the fetish market, discover the play area, participate in a bondage workshop, watch the shows, or capture your look at the fetish photobooth.

Each area has something different to offer. Walk around, discover what Toxic does to you, and let the night unfold on its own.

Toxic stands for freedom, equality, respect, diversity, and solidarity. A place where everyone can be themselves and where people come from far and wide.

And then, of course, there is the dress code.
Patent leather. Leather. Latex.
Nothing more, nothing less.

The door policy of the door bitches is notorious by now: strict, but fair. So make sure your outfit is right.

Wander around and get intoxicated.

Toxic Fetish Party
Time Out | Gemert
Saturday, October 24 | 20:00 - 04:00
www.toxic-fetishparty.nl

October 24

A delightful theme. A different location. A new temptation.

On Saturday, October 24, Little Sins will be entirely dedicated to Eyes Wide Sins. A more intimate edition, at a special location that remains secret for now.

Ceremony. Masks. Capes.
And especially.. looks that say more than words..

Following the success of Monastery of Lust, this edition will also feature that typical Little Sins atmosphere. We are keeping the location to ourselves for now. What we *can* tell you? There is only room for a limited number of chosen ones. You. You all. She. Or He. Or that one unexpected discovery…

People who want to dance & party carefree, seek excitement & adventure, and experience luxury & sensuality in a familiar environment. People who can occasionally enjoy a little sin... A Little Sin.

This time it is being kept intentionally intimate. So do you want to be there? Then don't wait too long to get your ticket.

Little Sins | Eyes Wide Sins
Saturday, October 24 | 21:00 – 03:00
www.littlesins.com

7 November

Chapters I and II were a great success... Chapter III promises to be even more intense.

Are you ready to get lost in the jungle? Do you dare to get lost in the dead of night? After two legendary editions, we return to the wilderness for Kinky Jungle – Chapter III: Lost in the Jungle.

Let yourself be swept away by hypnotic afro-electronic beats that seamlessly blend with the sultry basslines of the best Latin house. The drums lead the way, the energy takes over, and before you know it, you are completely lost in the ultimate jungle experience.

Forget about time. Follow the rhythm. Surrender to the temptation.

Kinky Jungle is an external organization and applies its own admissions policy.

• Couples and women up to and including 45 years of age
• No single gentlemen
• A ticket does not guarantee entry.