• “Recommended for you” is our new profile matching program that will give you recommendations based on certain criteria. Find new potential dates at the top of your feed.
• Users with a saved advanced search will receive a notification for new search results fitting your saved criteria.
• New Feed content about members matching your interests and travelling to the same area you are travelling to.
• Reminder notification for upcoming events you are attending. (3 days prior)

• Co-host options for private and public parties.

When it comes to the swinging lifestyle, one of the biggest questions couples face is whether they prefer same room play, separate room play, or both. For some, watching their partner in action is the ultimate turn-on. For others, privacy makes the experience hotter and more relaxed. Plenty of swinger couples find themselves somewhere in between, depending on the vibe of the night.

This quiz will help you discover which style best suits your desires (same room, separate room, or a flexible balance of both).

Take the quiz here!

Congratulations to LIZENMARV for winning the Blindfold Date Night video contest!

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by: Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Orgie, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Morgan Reynolds, Florida Lifestyler and STD Hero.

Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:

New – Bed, Sweat & Tears – Video Contest
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Lifestyle bracelet

With this SDC bracelet, you can wear the ultimate lifestyle symbol discreetly! It sets the new standard for showing that you embrace the lifestyle.

A stylish black bracelet featuring a steel centerpiece displaying the lifestyle symbol. It pairs perfectly with your classy, ​​sexy, or fetish outfit!

Suitable for both men and women, and easily adjustable to your preferred length.

Naturally, this bracelet also entitles you to great discounts with various partners of ours.

Be sure to check out our other models too!

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Summer is in full bloom! High time to plan sneaking away together or with a fun bunch of Lifestyle friends for a naughty little getaway! August is the perfect chance to squeeze in at least one more exciting adventure before the season changes. That means one or more sexy parties, a few more late nights, and more stories you’ll be able to share with the in-crowd!

Whether the plan is a party, a new connection here on SDC, or simply seeing where the night goes for you and your partner, having a place to stay when you’re away from home changes the whole experience. More time exploring, less time watching the clock.

So go ahead and check out all the sexy BNBs and book the extra night! We certainly won’t ask what happened after midnight!

Written in the Stars
Undressed under them

The Universe RSVP'd Yes to Celestial Cruise

Six nights. Six celestial theme nights - Golden Sunset to Satin & Silk Sunrise.

And a sky that is genuinely, verifiably showing off the entire week. This is the Celestial Cruise, and it's unlike anything we've ever built.

The full Pink Moon rises on the exact night of Moonlit Glow Night. The Lyrid meteor shower, one of the oldest in recorded history, peaks on the exact night of Metallic Meteor. And dust from Halley's Comet streaks the pre-dawn sky as the week closes with Satin & Silk Sunrise. Explore our full night-by-night sky guide and discover what's to come on this truly once-in-a-lifetime cruise.

Read Sky Guide

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The seven most common myths you’ll probably hear about swinging, and the seven most common benefits you actually get from it!

If we were to compare how different life feels before and after swinging — we would say it’s a bit like having a baby! No matter what you learn or think, you really can’t know until you go through the change and experience it for yourself. Only then can you really know how your life can change for the better. And, like any change to your lifestyle, you have to take it seriously to give it a proper chance of succeeding. But we are all anything to go by; you won’t wish to go back!

Before you make the decision to start, you’ll hear all the reasons why you shouldn’t  READ MORE...

Curious about BDSM, but not sure where to start?

INTRO is a low-key, beginner-friendly BDSM night specifically for newcomers, younger visitors, and anyone taking their first steps into the kink world. In a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere, you can explore, observe, ask questions, and get acquainted with BDSM at your own pace.

No pressure. No expectations. Just a nice opportunity to learn and experience.

Program:

• Intro – BDSM 101 for beginners
• Intro – Femdom
• Intro – Wax Play
• Experienced Dungeon Masters on hand for guidance and to answer questions
• Fully equipped facilities
• All-inclusive drinks

Whether you're curious, find it exciting, are enthusiastic, or just want to find out if BDSM is something for you — INTRO is the perfect place to get acquainted.

Want to join? Send us a private message via SDC with the names of all participants, and mention INTRO.

Take the first step and discover more...

Friday, August 14, 2026 | 8:00 PM – 2:00 AM
€45 per person, all-inclusive
Paradoxx | Antwerp

www.paradoxx.be

Start your weekend a little differently and leave the work week behind you during Club Showboat's Friday Lunch Break!

A relaxed afternoon full of good company, socializing, luxury facilities, and the familiar atmosphere Club Showboat is known for.

What can you expect?

• A stylish and relaxed atmosphere
• Spacious play areas
• Sauna and wellness facilities
• Pleasant encounters with like-minded guests
• Respect, discretion, and hygiene are top priorities
• Free parking in the area

Important | Appropriate club attire or dress code is required. | Club rules are in place to ensure a safe, respectful, and relaxed environment for everyone.

We warmly welcome you.
Team Club Showboat

Friday Lunch Break | 1:00 PM – 7:00 PM
All-inclusive entry prices | Couple: €110 | Woman: €40 | Man: €120
Club Showboat | Zaandijk

www.showboat.eu

Summer may be almost over, but Club Mystique is going all out one more time. On Saturday, September 12th, the garden with swimming pool sets the scene for the Secret Undergrounds Pool Party: 9 hours of great music, a relaxed atmosphere, and an open-minded crowd.

Club Mystique offers everything for a complete night out. Besides the atmospheric pool area, the venue has a high-quality sound system, several private rooms, darkrooms, a jacuzzi, a sling, a luxury locker room, and an extensive shop.

Main Pool Area:

• Mr & Mrs Secret
• Eric van Kleef
• Melvin Warning
• Iwan
• Emiel Roché
• Marcello

Once it cools down outside, the party moves into the club!

Dress code: Sexy, Lingerie, Sexy Bohemian, Kinky, Beach (NO Jeans/casual wear/nudity!) Door hostess on entry | NO men alone and no phones!

Guaranteed tickets are available for this party. You pay part of the entry fee online in advance and the remaining amount at the door. This guarantees you a spot, even if the event sells out!

A guaranteed SDC ticket costs €24.95. Last-minute tickets are available for €29.95. At the door, you pay the second part of the entry fee (€54.95 per person). This includes unlimited premium drinks, food, a locker, and parking, including for campers/RVs.

Want to make it a full weekend? There are several hotels in the area around Club Mystique. The organizers have no partnership with any of them, but do recommend booking early. This way you'll often get the best price and avoid everything being fully booked.

Secret Underground | CAP Pool Reunion
September 12th | 5:00 PM to 2:00 AM
Club Mystique | Rucphen

www.secret-underground.com

After the overwhelming success of the previous editions, we immediately looked into whether a follow-up would be possible... and yes: we're going for it! The 3rd edition is on August 22nd, once again with some exciting new additions for sure.

This time it's again at a Secret Location — already familiar to many by now. Not allowed on social media. Please note: the location will only be shared 2 days in advance and must NOT be posted on social media.

Line-up: Doctor of Conduction - Cindylicious - Lady Femm - Ralph Touwslager and more...

To make things easier for you, here are our tips for accommodation & transport:

Hotel tips

• Fletcher Hotel Etten-Leur | 20 min travel time
• Gr8 Hotel Breda | 20 min travel time
• Van der Valk Breda | 20 min travel time
• Van der Valk Dennenhof (Brasschaat) | 10 min travel time
• Charme Hotel Klokkenhof (Brasschaat) | 10 min travel time

Camping tips

• Camping De Ossewei (Achtmaal) | 22 min by bike
• Camping Keienven | 40 min by bike
• Camping & Stoeterij De Laarse Heide | 30 min by bike
• Camperplaats Begijntje (RV site) | 27 min by bike

Shuttle buses will run from several locations. Reserve in advance — once it's full, it's full (tickets are per person).

Did you have to miss the first edition? Then you're more than welcome now! And for all the guests who joined us back then: of course we'd love to see you again!

Love, FlaMigo Events

Mixed Party III | August 22, 2026
8:00 PM – 3:00 AM | Doors open: 8:00 PM – 10:00 PM

www.flamigoevents.nl

The third party of 2026, exclusively for single ladies, girlfriends, lesbians, and bi women. At Ladies Night, we want to give every woman the chance to socialize and connect with other women at our events.

Whether you want to party, meet a new friend, or just have a good time, Ladies Night at Fun is the right place for you. It's very important to us that every woman feels welcome and safe, and can be herself at our events. Ladies come from far across the border to attend this special evening, and things that come from far away tend to be worth it. A club full of fun, attractive women, likely all with one thing on their mind: enjoying each other! Bringing your own toys/items is allowed.

The one and only real event of its kind in the Netherlands. Hundreds of lovely ladies, delicious snacks and drinks, and the best music with our top DJ! Fun4Two is once again pulling out all the stops with the best atmosphere, plus a surprise act at around 10:00 PM. A ladies' night is, of course, all about good company, great food and drinks, teasing and pleasing, and who knows what else...

If you're here for the erotic side of things, there are plenty of erotic spaces where sex takes place. But there are also plenty of women who simply come for the social side — a chat, dancing, and meeting other women. It's a genuinely fun evening!

All kinds of ladies come to our Ladies Night: lesbian, bi, and even straight. Many women also come alone. The age range is very broad, from early 20s to late 50s.

Until around 9:30 PM, you can keep your clothes on. This can be anything: a dress, pants with a nice top, a skirt and top, etc. Sportswear/athletic wear is not allowed! After all, you're going out for the evening. After that, it's time to change into lingerie. This can be anything — from bra and panties to a bodysuit, something lacy... with or without a kimono, a sheer catsuit, etc.

LADIES, LET'S HAVE SOME FUN!

Thursday, September 10, 2026 | 8:00 PM – 1:00 AM
Fun4Two | Moordrecht

www.fun4two.nl

A libertine evening for women and a swingers' night for couples!

Let yourself be swept away in a relaxed holiday vibe during Mojito Night at Cocoon.

Enjoy a delicious, ice-cold mojito in the cozy bar, atmospheric music, a lively dance floor, and a refined buffet.

Let yourself be tempted by our cozy, intimate, air-conditioned rooms, designed to offer comfort and calm all evening long. For extra relaxation, a sauna and showers with towels are available to you.

Depending on your mood, you can explore our welcoming spaces that invite good conversation, or be guided to more private corners, ideal for intimate moments.

Everything is there for a wonderful evening in a relaxed and open-minded atmosphere.

At Cocoon, the motto is: anything goes, nothing is required. Meet like-minded people, enjoy the atmosphere, and experience the evening in your own way.

August 22nd | 9:30 PM to 3:00 AM
Cocoon | Brussels

www.cocoonbrussels.com