Swingers
Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Talk Before You Touch: Communication that Makes Play Hotter
In the lifestyle, communication isn’t just about words; it’s about connection, trust, and keeping everyone on the same page.
In The Playroom
Are Vanillas a Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic?
Cate & Darrell unpack their hot takes on dirty vanillas in the swinging lifestyle
STI Testing for Swingers: Why “Safer Sex” Beats “Safe Sex”
Is oral sex “low risk”? How long should you wait to test after a hotel takeover or cruise? And what’s the real deal with HSV and HPV in the lifestyle? We brought receipts — and two experts.
Cap d'Agde Desires, What’s in the Box, and How to Small Talk
Do you talk about your desires before going to a swingers club or swingers event? In this episode, Cate and Darrell share what they hope for at Cap d'Agde, a swingers mecca in France.
Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience
Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor?
The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution, or Opportunism?
Hot Takes: The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution or Opportunism? (Bonus Episode)
Sexual Trauma and the Swinger Lifestyle: What You Need to Know
How can sexual past sexual trauma impact your or your partners' lifestyle journey? In this very important episode, Cate talks to a counselor! A must-listen for all lifestylers.
Communicating Through Complexity
Hosts Adam and Pris dive deep into the nuances of communication within intimate relationships.
Navigating Friendships in Non-Monogamy
Adam and Pris touch on an intriguing subject: friendships in non-monogamous relationships.
Lifestyle 101 Series - Having the "Lifestyle" Talk With Your Partner
Adam & Pris get raw and real about how to open the lifestyle conversation with your partner—timing, reassurance, boundaries, and lessons learned.
Spotted! When Your Vanilla Life Crashes the Lifestyle
Tackling every newbie's biggest fear, running into someone you know, and how to turn panic into a confident lifestyle win.
One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle
Adam & Pris get real about bad swinging nights, second-chance debates, and how to reset your confidence so one flop never defines your journey.
Exploring Intimacy Beyond Monogamy: A Candid Discussion
Adam and Pris discuss anticipation versus experience, funny incidents at lifestyle events, heartfelt lessons on inclusivity, and more.
Navigating Intimate Insecurities
Hosts Adam and Pris have an open, real conversation about insecurities, particularly in intimate relationships.