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Explore the world's sexiest cities and hottest swinger-friendly destinations, like Amsterdam, Las Vegas, South Florida, and beyond! Find the best swingers lifestyle clubs, novelty boutiques, exclusive swingers parties, and more. Whether you're planning a sexy getaway or seeking new adventures in the swinging lifestyle, you'll find the perfect cities to meet swingers and enjoy unforgettable experiences!

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Sexiest Cities in the United States

The sexiest cities in the United States offer vibrant nightlife, diverse swinger communities, and often have an open-minded attitude toward adult lifestyles. From iconic party hubs like Las Vegas and the sexy, red-hot nightlife in Miami to the secret swinging lifestyles in the Midwest and everywhere in between, these cities are known for swinger clubs, lifestyle events, adult boutiques, and sexy nightlife, making the U.S. a top destination for swingers seeking excitement and connection.

California

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The erotic pulse of the State of California is palpable. Los Angeles, San Francisco, and San Diego are most certainly sublime places for sexy players of the like-minded kind looking to unlock their fantasies. With a line-up of naughty soirees for the bi-curious, erotic daters, swingers, kinksters, dungeon seekers, and/or the otherwise hedonistically inclined, the many mansions, clubs, and parties all around the towns are an awesome way to test the waters and/or rock the boat for novices and well-versed players alike.

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Los Angeles

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Los Angeles is a city of contradictions, a diverse urban sprawl where laid-back SoCal vibes meet the glitz of Hollywood glamour. Travelers come to L.A. from all over the world to experience a glimpse of celebrity culture, creating a visitor experience that is second to none in comfort and luxury. For swingers and other sexually liberated folks, the vibrant, adults-only nightlife scene promises erotic adventure, with parties and events for every lifestyle, kink, or pleasure. The City of Angels is a place where dreams come true both on-screen and off-screen, and there is always something — or someone — new to discover.

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San Diego

Find all of the swingers lifestyle information for the San Diego area.San Diego's sun-kissed beaches and vibrant nightlife make it a paradise for visitors who want to experience the swingers lifestyle. By day, the atmosphere is pure California – chill and laid-back – but at night, those in search of non-monogamous thrills come out to play! Whether your idea of a good time is lounging around nude on the beach or cruising the clubs in the Gaslamp Quarter, San Diego has something to satisfy your every desire.

San Francisco

Open-minded and diverse, San Francisco is full of possibilities for swingers and anyone else in search of erotic liberation. By day, the Bay area is home to sunny beaches, bustling markets, and a thriving art scene. At night, it reveals its wild side. Looking for a lifestyle party? San Francisco has large events and private gatherings – choose whichever suits you. If clubs or dungeons are more your style, the options are just as many. This sex-positive city in California is ripe for adventure!

Colorado

Denver

The mountain city of Denver is a haven for liberated swingers and thrill-seekers included! In the “Mile High City”, you can say you joined the “Mile High Club” when you enjoy some of the wild fun happening every night in Denver. With its sunny weather and gorgeous views, Denver is a great place to visit for those with a love of the great outdoors. Denver is also known as the Craft Beer Capital of the U.S. There is plenty of hotness too; the locals are as gorgeous as the scenery, and the fresh mountain air makes everyone feel alive! At first glance, the lifestyle may seem more underground in Denver, but don’t worry – you’ll find many adults-only events and sexy couples and singles to meet!

Florida

Orlando

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Find all of the swingers lifestyle information in the Orlando area.Central Florida is a play by day, play by night kind of deal! Famously the happy home to all the wonderful entertainment parks attracting people from all over the world. This is why when connecting through SDC.com, you’ll be able to not only find the hottest locals, but also those that travel there for fun from literally everywhere! So, it’s good to know that when darkness descends, the fireworks are done, and the lights dimmed, there still is a lot to discover on the wilder side for sexy swingers couples.

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South Florida

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Swingers lifestyle information and businesses in South Florida. Miami and neighboring suburbs like Fort Lauderdale, also known as the Venice of America, are South Florida’s ultimate vacation destinations and swinger hotspots. Alongside turquoise waters and pastel-colored architecture, you’ll find an intoxicating sexy vibe, high octane glamour, golden beaches, lovely weather, history, culture, and entertainment. This art-loving, style-conscious city is an absolute treasure chest of adventures waiting to be opened and discovered.

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Georgia

Atlanta

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Find all of the swinging lifestyle information in the Atlanta area.If rooftop bars, breweries, nightclubs, and speakeasies are your thing, Atlanta is a great choice destination for swingers! Georgia is the Peach State, which is a highly erotic fruit, and yes, there is lots to find to inspire you to get your sexy on! It helps that it’s easy to get to from literally anywhere in the world. The swingers' community and lifestyle scene in Atlanta is a happy one and very much alive. Atlanta is a great lifestyle destination, and you can plan to stop over to explore the area on your way to other destinations as well.

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Illinois

Chicago

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Find all lifestyle information and more about swingers in the Chicago area. Chicago may be known internationally as “The Windy City,” but swingers know it as a city of exciting nightlife and sexy fun. By day, visitors can explore art galleries, wellness retreats, and world-class restaurants and shop along the famous Magnificent Mile — but swingers come out to party in speakeasy style when the sun goes down over the lakeshore! BDSM enthusiasts, non-monogamous couples, and adventurous singles will all find something to satisfy their desires in the lively, sexy city of Chicago.

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Nevada

Las Vegas

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Find all of the swingers' lifestyle information in the Las Vegas area. The city of Las Vegas, also known worldwide as Sin City and the Entertainment Capital of the World, is one of the most famous destinations in the USA also for thrill-seekers of the more salacious kind. Erotic daters, swingers, and BDSM lifestylers have been flocking to Las Vegas to frequent the many hidden gems and secret hot spots that go beyond the flashy attractions on the Strip. Whether it’s your first time visiting or the hundredth time, there are always more of those wonderful under-the-radar locales and sexy lifestyle singles and couples to discover.

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New York

New York City

New York City, known as “the city that never sleeps,” is a haven for swingers looking for a good time. Travelers from around the globe are drawn into the entertainment and New York City nightlife, and that’s also true for lifestylers seeking a more salacious experience in a North American hotspot. New York pulses with dynamic activity and unparalleled energy; you’ll find that the party truly doesn’t stop until dawn! New York caters to every taste, so whether it’s romance, kink, or sensuality that you seek, the Big Apple is the ultimate destination.

Texas

Dallas

Find all of the swingers' lifestyle information in the Dallas area. Lovingly called “Big D” by the locals in the Lone Star State, there is no exception to the general notion that “everything” is bigger in Texas. This charming area is indeed loaded with sexy entertainment venues, wonderful lounges, and a wide selection of other amore-rich locales, some headed by well-known celebrity chefs. Dallas is where you can find the best salsa Picante — and anything else hot in the lifestyle.

Houston

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Houston’s motto as “The City With No Limits” rings absolutely true when it comes to the swingers’ lifestyle as well. The more erotically inclined can find loads of like-minded couples and singles to play with at the many wonderfully naughty establishments. From dimly-lit, sexy wine bars to hot tango lessons together, this city is diverse and open-minded. Not surprisingly, it was also the largest U.S. city to elect an openly gay female mayor. SDC.com is 100% inclusive and, as such, supports and welcomes all lifestyles within its community! Houston, Texas is a great place to kick back, relax, and meet old or new lifestyle friends.

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Washington

Seattle

Seattle is famous for coffee, music, and technology — but at night, this sexy American city comes alive with a vibrant entertainment scene, perfect for singles and lifestyle couples alike! The city’s natural beauty, from lush forests to sweeping ocean views, provides a stunning backdrop for romance and erotic adventures for open-minded couples and singles in Seattle. Visitors who love to feel fresh air on their naked bodies will be pleased to find that there are plenty of clothing-optional locales, and of course there are many lounges and clubs to mix and mingle with sexy locals. Seattle has plenty of fun and excitement to offer, whether you’re a swinger or you just want to take a walk on the wild side.

Sexiest Cities in Europe

From the seductive nightlife of Paris to Amsterdam’s famously open-minded atmosphere, and well beyond, Europe offers unmatched elegance and erotic freedom. Known for luxurious swinger clubs, international swinger events, erotic festivals, and a relaxed attitude toward adult exploration, these sexy European cities attract adventurous couples and singles seeking connection, pleasure, and unforgettable experiences across the continent.

Austria

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Austria has been one of SDC’s favorite go-to countries for yearly ski events for many years in the past. With its glorious mountains, picturesque ski towns, and daily après-ski parties, Austria is pretty much the ultimate swingers winter vacation retreat. Even though the country has a somewhat reserved reputation, nothing is further from the truth! There is so much to discover together and with like-minded others that one visit will not be enough!

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Belgium

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Belgium offers anything from beaches to hilltops in the Ardennes, making it ideal for outdoorsy people. Romantics at heart are well-served, as many cities are offering up a diverse palette of medieval architecture and ditto atmosphere. Belgium is also a very sexually-infused country with an abundance of swinger clubs and other sexy locales for the naughty at heart. So, swinger couples and sexy singles, erotic dates, and hotwives can enjoy the lifestyle to the fullest and find what they are looking for.

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France

France is arguably one of the most romantic and erotic countries in Europe by far, where the language alone is considered an aphrodisiac by many. It's surprisingly rich in sexy activities, with nearly 500 swinger clubs in France. Swinging is actually quite popular, and anything that was previously taboo is no more. Whether you are into BDSM play parties, sexy workshops, swingers parties, sex shops, or anything erotic, you are bound to have a kinky time while enjoying the local ‘delicatessen,’ so to speak. This is also home to the Village Naturiste in Cap d’Agde, so if you are all about stripping everything off, France undoubtedly puts the risqué into your escapades in the swinging lifestyle. Champagne, please!

Cap d'Agde Naturist Village

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The Naturist Village in Cap d’Agde, located in the South of France, is a unique and liberating lifestyle experience. High levels of sensuality and arousing sexuality are palpable in the air. This is the only hedonistic paradise in the world where everything is done in the buff. This liberating, gated town with a certain back to the ‘70s vibe, offers an abundance of primal thrills for those in the swingers lifestyle, BDSM, fetish and LGBTQIA+ scene. From sexy shops, bars, and restaurants, to swingers clubs, saunas and tantra massages, this is an intoxicating place where the party is day and night, non-stop.

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Paris

Paris is one of the Swingers Capitals of the world! With France’s liberated attitudes towards sex, the City of Love offers an endless buffet of erotic indulgences. In fact, sexuality is so accepted as an essential part of human nature that going to swingers clubs in France isn’t viewed much differently than any other type of recreation. Even high-profile public figures and celebrity couples have been known to frequent lifestyle clubs! Visitors come from all over the world, so there are always new, hot singles and swinger couples in Paris for traveling lifestylers to meet and play with, with numerous options for naughty establishments to explore.

Germany

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Germany is a super liberal country, and you’ll find that sex is not a taboo topic whatsoever. Swinging is popular and, combined with a thriving sex industry, Germany happily offers whatever you are looking for — and a lot of it. In the many clubs, you will often find BDSM and fetish corners and glory holes, dark rooms, and play areas. So, whether you are in for hooking up with like-minded others in bars, clubs, saunas, and — why not? — those popular BDSM spaces and haunts, Germany truly has it all, including Oktoberfest!

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Iceland

Iceland, or the 'Land of Fire and Ice,' is a wonderland of glaciers, volcanoes, hot springs, and more. The Northern Lights is most definitely an experience for the bucket list. With a population of just over 330,000, it is blissfully progressive toward sexuality. In fact, it is such a sexually liberated country that it's easy to find swingers in Iceland. To some, it may come as a surprise that the country is a strong leader on the world stage in women's rights. As such, it has pretty much closed the illicit sex industry in the past few decades. Stripping, prostitution, and lap dances are banned. However, its reputation leans toward being a sexual oasis despite strict sex laws and short club hours. The cultural dating scene just goes down a little differently than most elsewhere in the world. With women seen as equals of men, they enjoy a chill, sex-positive attitude that allows them to express sexuality straightforward and freely. 'Sex first, talk later' is widely accepted and not considered a big deal at all. Due to the small populace, the swingers and kink scenes have been thus far operating primarily underground. However, the number of free spirits and consenting adults has been growing lately with leaps and bounds. Swinger parties are held at private homes, mostly for reasons of privacy. And, just like anywhere else, couples and singles in Iceland look to expand their lifestyle adventures together against any odds, with the largest city capital, Reykjavik, being the most active scene.

Italy

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Italians have a longtime reputation of being quite the hotties. They also seem to be quite open-minded and have come a long way when it comes to swinging and LGBTQIA+ lifestyles, albeit in a “behind the veil” kind of way. There are, however, plenty of swinger clubs in Italy where couples and singles are absolutely welcomed to enjoy each other and the amenities. With its breathtaking historic sites and sunny climate, Italy attracts a lot of swingers visiting from abroad. Even though sex clubs are not legal, there are many Clubs Privè with a private member base featuring sensual atmospheres and decidedly adult delights. They do have to adhere to strict membership rules, and so it’s important to check out the websites and contact the clubs you wish to visit to secure your admission prior to your arrival.

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Portugal

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Though Portugal is traditionally conceived as somewhat conservative, the lifestyle has been growing noticeably in popularity over the past decade. There are quite a few places that are absolutely geared toward or even 100% lifestyle-friendly. Lisbon and Coimbra take the lead, as most big cities attract erotic daters, swingers, and other couples and singles of the free-thinking, open-minded kind.

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Spain

Spain, blessed with its palaces, medieval villages, and perfect weather, is a popular swingers' destination for holidays, sexy fiestas, and tasty cuisine. Its rich culture and modern life blend beautifully. The incredible amount of beaches attract couples and singles in the lifestyle from all over the world. Scroll if you wish to see what party island Ibiza has for the swingers' lifestyle, as this place is a destination well-worth a separate visit.

The Netherlands

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Sex, drugs, and rock ‘n roll are immediately on the top of the list when you ask people about The Kingdom of The Netherlands. Quickly followed by tulips, windmills, bicycles, clogs, and of course the Red-Light District in Amsterdam. There is, however, so much more to discover in the 12 provinces that make up the whole of Holland. The Netherlands is home to a delightful open-minded Dutch populace. There is a well-established and widely accepted LGBTQIA+, swingers, and fetish scene. Apart from Amsterdam, there are plenty more awesome cities to explore like Rotterdam, Utrecht, The Hague, Groningen, Maastricht, and their surrounding areas. The Netherlands offers erotic daters, swingers, and anyone else with a bit of a playful, naughty mind a happening nightlife, plus an ultra-sexy dance festival season each year. The Netherlands is the ultimate European country to feel right at home and to start — or continue — a sexy journey. Discover the most exciting swingers' clubs and lifestyle and kinky fetish parties on your own, together, and with other like-minded couples and singles.

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Amsterdam

Amsterdam is the perfect city for a rendezvous with those lusty-eyed couples and singles in the swingers lifestyle. It’s no surprise that this 24-hours-a-day capital with elaborate canals adorned by beautiful 17th-century façades is the epicenter of sexy with exciting choices on its erotic menu. Amsterdam is home to a seductive world waiting to be discovered by experienced swingers in the swinging lifestyle, as well as erotic daters and lifestyle newbies. We’re not just talking about the sensual red glow at night of the windows in the renowned red-light district, which is by far one of the most infamous red-light districts in the world and the number one tourist spot for anyone who visits Amsterdam from abroad. Amsterdam also embraces the LGBTQ+ community and is the proud host of the most famous annual gay boating parade in the world.

Rotterdam

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Rotterdam is the second largest city of the Netherlands in the province of South Holland. It was almost completely reconstructed after World War II, so the architecture paints a modern picture. This temptress of a city is daring and bold with a happening swingers party scene.

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The Hague

The Hague is a happening city with a reputation for its sexy bartenders. As the government seat of The Netherlands, the International Court of Justice is inside the Peace Palace. The Hague is a popular European city, especially for the erotically inclined. There is no shortage of sexy places and parties to discover, and it is close to Amsterdam and Rotterdam and very close to beaches with golden sand.

United Kingdom

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It may be surprising; the UK swinger scene is absolutely huge. There are many discreet communities, clubs and party events organized to meet the equal grand demand. They range anywhere from small kinky gatherings to hedonistic play zones to absolutely happening love fests to full throttle active swinger dojos. Basically, whatever your wildest fantasies are, or just looking for something spicy to extend the night, you’ll definitely find your kink in the United Kingdom!

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Sexiest Cities in Canada

The sexiest cities in Canada combine cosmopolitan charm with a discreet yet thriving swinger and sex-positive scene. Cities like Toronto, Montreal, and Vancouver are known for their liberal attitudes, upscale swinger clubs, erotic events, and inclusive communities, offering a perfect mix of sophistication and sensual adventure for open-minded couples and singles alike.

Canada

Canada is not only a spectacular place to visit — it’s also a diverse country that is wonderfully open-minded and embraces all alternative lifestyles, including swinging. Apart from a broad selection of clubs, parties, and events for swingers and erotic daters, the LGBTQIA+ community is graciously supported and embraced as well. Polyamory is on the rise in Canada, where November 23 has been dedicated as National Polyamory Day. Polyamory is the practice of having more than one intimate relationship with consent, which has been determined legal in Canada.

Sexiest Cities in Mexico

The sexiest cities in Mexico are celebrated for their passionate culture, warm climate, and growing swinger-friendly travel scene. From beach destinations to lively urban centers, Mexico attracts those who enjoy swingers travel events, adult resorts, swinger lifestyle parties, erotic nightlife, and a relaxed, pleasure-positive vibe, making it an ideal choice for a sexy getaway abroad.

Mexico

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Mexico is a country rich in ancient traditions, sites, and culture. Mexico is a popular go-to for many swinger couples, erotic daters, and singles and has been for many years. SDC.com organizes multiple well-attended annual lifestyle events and parties at this spectacular beach destination. This is where swingers embrace sun-kissed lifestyle adventures together and enjoy the freedom. The swinger’s scene in Mexico has made tremendous progress in the past few years and is on the rise in a big way, so you can expect to find more and more places to see and be seen!

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