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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 2
Learn more about the relationship foundations and dynamics to leave behind with monogamy if you're considering ethical non-monogamy.
Welcome to Part 2. Watch Part 1 here if you missed it!
Monogamous relationships and ethically non-monogamous relationships have different foundations and dynamics. While some characteristics may be applicable to both, there are certain aspects that may not transition well from monogamy to ethical non-monogamy due to the nature of each relationship style.
Jealousy as Taboo: In monogamous relationships, jealousy is often considered a negative emotion to be avoided. In ethical non-monogamy, jealousy is recognized as a natural emotion and is addressed openly through communication and emotional processing. Transitioning without accepting and addressing jealousy can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts.
COMMENT
Consensual non-monogamy is complicated, but if you follow these steps when engaging with potential partners, you're more likely to find those that are in alignment with your needs and desires.
Lexi was a guest on the Ladies, Let's Talk About Sex podcast, and she and host Felicia talk about what it's like to live an authentically ethically-non-monogamous lifestyle.
How Taylor transitioned into ethical non-monogamy, why she wrote the book An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy, and the launch of THE SERIES
Shared Resources and Time: Monogamous couples typically share their resources, time, and responsibilities with one partner.
Emotional Monogamy: Emotional exclusivity is a common characteristic of monogamous relationships, where partners often seek emotional fulfillment exclusively from each other.
How Taylor transitioned into ethical non-monogamy, why she wrote the book An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy, and the launch of THE SERIES
