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Build anticipation and give your partner extra pleasure with foreplay. Get oral sex tips to give the best cunnilingus and blow jobs, and discover more advice on making foreplay exciting and enjoyable for you and your lover(s).
The New Tantra
Tantra Tips for Hotter, Deeper Sex
Have you always been curious about tantra but don't know where to start?

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BlkTouch's Brian Dwayne on Black Erotica
Showcasing the beauty and sensuality of Black people in both an exotic and erotic medium, both in still and movement on film, is greatly accomplished by Brian Dwayne, founder of BlkTouch.

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Seduction, Flirting, and the Art of the Tease
Explore the art of seduction, flirting, teasing, and the power of sexual anticipation in this sexy new podcast called Please Me!


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No More Shaming Women's Bodies
Find out how Women’s bodies have been scrutinized and body shamed now and historically and how we can overcome it.

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How to Say No at a Sex Club Respectfully
There is no room for people-pleasing in the swinger and sex club lifestyle. Learn HOW to say no firmly and respectfully with these tips.

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My Journey Into Ethical Non-Monogamy
How Taylor transitioned into ethical non-monogamy, why she wrote the book An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy, and the launch of THE SERIES


Watch the Secrets, Lies, and Dirty Games Video Trailer
Are you ready to spark your Lexuality and bring some steamy, sexy, and scandalous reading into your life?

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Which is More Intimate: Sleeping Together OR Oral Sex?
In this Ask a Sex Goddess video, Taylor discusses the nuances of intimacy and sex.


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Do Women Want Threesomes with Other Women?
FMF threesomes are not just a fantasy for guys!

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Beginner Tips for Hotwifing Newbies
Here are some brief words of wisdom for hotwifing newbies

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Taking Better Photos: Swinger Dating Profile Advice
Do photos really matter that much? Yes. Here's how to fix them.


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SDC Sexy Ski 2023 — Your Ultimate Winter Sexcapade!
Experience a cool lifestyle surprise on the sunny, powdered slopes in Granada, Spain!

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Want to Make Money & Grow Your Business? Become an SDC Partner!
Learn how SDC Partners have the opportunity to reach open-minded, highly-targeted people around the world.

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How to Maximize the Simple Yet Powerful SDC Partner Dashboard
Curious about how SDC works to reach your preferred audience? Here's a behind-the-scenes glimpse into the tools available to our Partners.