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Often confused with hotwifing, cuckolding is a popular kink, especially among swingers. Learn the difference between cuckolding and hotwifing, how to be a cuckold, and more.
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Hotwifing and Swinging: Are They the Same Thing?
Do Hotwifing and Swinging overlap? Let's talk about it.

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It’s Time to Talk About Lube Shaming
Using lube is normal — and it shouldn't be shameful. Here's why.

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Her Guilty Confessions: An Interview with René Moon
Lexi talks all things fantasy with René Moon in this exclusive interview.


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Be the Better Bull
The how, the what, and the who of recreational sex with a Hotwife

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Erotic Art with Alex Manfredini: The Artist Behind the Camera
Meet the award-winning erotic photographer renowned worldwide for his glamorous, star-studded career.

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Everything You (N)Ever Wanted to Know About Penises!
Sex Therapist and "Connoisseur of Dicks" Stephanie Sigler schools us with these phallic facts.


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Establishing Boundaries with Primary Partners
Stephanie Sigler of Evolve Your Intimacy talks about boundaries here in The Relationship Contract.

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How to Talk to Your Wife About Your Cuckolding Fantasies
Venus Cuckoldress shares her tips on how cuckolding hopefuls can better navigate conversations about making their fantasy a reality.

SDC Kinkmas 2023
12 Days of Kinkmas Calendar
Swingers love gifts as much as anyone, so we created the sexiest countdown to Christmas — a Kinkmas calendar!


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Hotwives' Club: Size Queens in the Hotwife Lifestyle
Brenna from Front Porch Swingers & Sex on Your Terms shares some insight on size queens within hotwifing communities.

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Sexual Freedom is Intrinsically Linked to Social Justice
Sex educator Luna Matatas explains how sexual expression, access, and more are tied to privilege and other societal influences in this thought-provoking piece.

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Your Guide to Drama-Free Sex Parties & Events
Navigate sex parties and events so that you can have more fun and less drama!


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Binding Love in a Winding Rope
An excerpt from the book OPEN: Conversations for People Considering an Open Relationship. A story of public bondage and belonging.

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Ladies First! Checkmate Beverly Hills Coming Soon!
Lexi Sylver interviews Checkmate NYC swinger club owner Gianni for insider info on this swanky lifestyle destination and its expansion into LA.

ASN Lifestyle Magazine Bob Hannaford Coronavirus COVID 19 Pandemic Swinging Health
Today’s Idea of Sexual “Protection” Has Changed
We can learn a lot from what the lifestyle was like in the '80s when looking at this pandemic and how we will get through it as a community.