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Whether you're a swinger couple, a couple in the open lifestyle, or a couple in a monogamous relationship, there are many ways to keep your connection healthy and sexy. Get tips on how to communicate your needs and desires to your partner, how to meet swinger couples in the swinging lifestyle, how to spice up your sex life together, how to handle jealousy, and more helpful advice. Read real-life stories from swinger couples about their first swinging experiences, wife swapping adventures, hotwifing escapades, and more.
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Talk Before You Touch: Communication that Makes Play Hotter
In the lifestyle, communication isn’t just about words; it’s about connection, trust, and keeping everyone on the same page.

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Cap d'Agde Desires, What’s in the Box, and How to Small Talk
Do you talk about your desires before going to a swingers club or swingers event? In this episode, Cate and Darrell share what they hope for at Cap d'Agde, a swingers mecca in France.

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Are Vanillas a Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic?
Cate & Darrell unpack their hot takes on dirty vanillas in the swinging lifestyle


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STI Testing for Swingers: Why “Safer Sex” Beats “Safe Sex”
Is oral sex “low risk”? How long should you wait to test after a hotel takeover or cruise? And what’s the real deal with HSV and HPV in the lifestyle? We brought receipts — and two experts.

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Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience
Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questionable club decor?

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The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution, or Opportunism?
Hot Takes: The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution or Opportunism? (Bonus Episode)


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Sexual Trauma and the Swinger Lifestyle: What You Need to Know
How can sexual past sexual trauma impact your or your partners' lifestyle journey? In this very important episode, Cate talks to a counselor! A must-listen for all lifestylers.

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How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events
Are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?

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QUICKIE: Sensual vs Non Sensual
An honest and entertaining look at how sexual wants evolve over time, tracing one couple's journey from past experiences to a newfound desire for something more sensual.


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One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle
Adam & Pris get real about bad swinging nights, second-chance debates, and how to reset your confidence so one flop never defines your journey.

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What is the Lifestyle? An In-Depth Exploration
Hosts Adam and Pris offer lifestyle insights for newbies, singles, and committed partners.

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Why Discretion & Judgment Matter in Non-Monogamy
Adam and Pris on facing lifestyle judgment, living authentically, and the growth open non-monogamy brings.


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Infidelity in the Lifestyle: A Paradox
Hosts Adam and Pris delve into the perplexing issue of infidelity within open relationships, specifically within the lifestyle community.

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Swinging: Strengthening Bonds or Breaking Them?
A candid look at how swinging can deepen communication and intimacy in an already strong marriage, with a clear warning against using the lifestyle as a fix for relationship problems.

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Transforming Love: Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Shame, Attachment & Polywise Relationships
Jessica Fern & David Cooley on attachment, the Shame Triangle, and turning resentment into deeper connection.