Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth
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Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.
In ethical non-monogamy (ENM), past experiences — especially from monogamous relationships — can create a mental filter that makes you see what you expect to see… not what's really happening. That’s called confirmation bias, and it’s keeping you stuck.
In this video, you’ll learn:
- What confirmation bias is (and how it shows up in ENM)
- How trauma from cheating or abandonment can cloud new experiences
- How your mind uses bias to protect — but also limit — you
- Red flags that you’re operating from bias, not truth
- Tools to interrupt this pattern and build trust, presence, and freedom in your ENM relationships
Want to go deeper? Grab the An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy Workbook (Now Available)! Book your FREE 20-Minute Clarity Call at OrganicLoven. Let’s move from fear-based assumptions to freedom-based connection. Your love. Your rules. Your freedom.
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FLCHARMINGMAN
Jul 30, 2025
This was so helpful to watch! Thank you for breaking this dynamic down and it really resonated with me today.
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