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Whether you're a swinger couple, a couple in the open lifestyle, or a couple in a monogamous relationship, there are many ways to keep your connection healthy and sexy. Get tips on how to communicate your needs and desires to your partner, how to meet swinger couples in the swinging lifestyle, how to spice up your sex life together, how to handle jealousy, and more helpful advice. Read real-life stories from swinger couples about their first swinging experiences, wife swapping adventures, hotwifing escapades, and more.
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Cap d’Agde 101: Where Naturism and Swinging Meet
One of the sexiest destinations in Europe, Cap d’Agde lets you explore how naturism and the swinging lifestyle mix in this one-of-a-kind destination.

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Offense vs. Defense: The Game Playing Out in Relationships
What if relationship growth didn’t have to come from conflict or repair? This article unpacks the idea of offense vs. defense in relationships, using a real retreat insight to explore how proactive care, intentional connection, and ongoing maintenance can deepen intimacy — particularly within ethical non-monogamy.

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Swinging in Paris: Inside the City of Light’s Lifestyle Scene
In Paris’s after-hours landscape, attraction and opportunity for open-minded swingers are always ready to unfold.


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How Swinging Can Improve Your Marriage
Can an open relationship boost your marriage? Read on!

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The Sexiest BNBs to Book Now!
Embrace romance and sexy adventures at these unique BNBs around the world.

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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.


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Swingers & Social Media: Navigating Privacy in the Digital Age
How swingers can discreetly explore digital spaces with a sexy sense of confidence.

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What if One Partner Wants to Be a Swinger But the Other Doesn’t?
How do you handle it when your partner doesn’t want an open relationship, but you do?

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What to Expect on Your First Swingers Date
From first drinks to first touches; discover what really happens when curiosity gives way to connection.


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Top 10 Things Nobody Told You About Herpes
No one wants HSV. But having it doesn’t mean you’ll automatically spread it. The risks can be heavily reduced with planning and prevention.

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How Do Hotwife Couples Vet Potential Playmates?
Secrets of successful hotwifing couples and their playmate vetting practices.

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12 Benefits of the Swinging Lifestyle
Discover how the swinger lifestyle can transform your relationship!


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SDC Validations: Tips, How-Tos, and More!
Validations on SDC.com are SACRED! In this video, you'll learn why they're so important and how to use them in your lifestyle properly.

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Say It Out Loud — The Power of Affirmation!!!
In this episode, Jason and Stef dive into the role of affirmation.

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Flirting Into Foreplay!
Flirting isn’t just for first dates! It’s the secret sauce that keeps relationships fun, playful, and connected, both in and out of the lifestyle.


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So... You're Curious?
Every journey starts with a spark — and ours began with a curious question that changed everything.

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Swinging vs. Polyamory vs. Other Open Relationships
How is swinging different from polyamory and other open relationships?

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Is There Cheating in the Swinging Lifestyle?
Do swingers cheat? Can there be cheating in an open relationship?


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Tired of Getting 'Hi' and 'Hey' In Your DMs? Try This!
Follow these three quick tips to ensure your profile is inviting quality DMs!

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Just Because They Don't Kiss Doesn't Mean They Aren't Ready!
Find out if the ‘no kissing rule’ can limit your potential play dates in the swinging lifestyle. 

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How to "Close the Deal" Without Killing the Vibe
You’ve connected, you’ve flirted… but how do you go from playful banter to an actual playroom invite without feeling awkward?


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Swinger-Friendly Getaways at Affordable Prices!
Swinger-friendly stays? Oh, they exist… and they’re hotter (and cheaper) than you might think.

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How to Be Discreet & Private in The Swinger Lifestyle
Swinger tips for balancing anonymity, trust, and connection in the swinging lifestyle

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An Introvert's Guide to Enjoying Swinger Parties and Events
Nervous about your first swinger party because you're introverted or shy? Here's the truth: you don't just have to survive lifestyle events — you can actually enjoy them. You just have to get into the swing of things.